And I just read a story on msnbc.com about how a father bound his daughter's hands and feet, so that she could swim in China's Xiang River (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21126016/):
He claims that she *wanted* to do this, so that she could one day swim the English Channel, but a newspaper report mentioned that she came out of the cold water blue in the face.
I can't help but use this as an indictment against traditional Asian parenting. This is EXACTLY the kind of thing that many Asian parents (at least from my experience) force their kids to do, and then tell the public about how the kid did so on their own accord.
Of course, all kids need *some* sort of pushing from their parents, in order to get anywhere in life-- but Asian parents seem to take things to the extreme. And even worse, they turn it into a collective societal thing, where they're always trading bragging rights with other parents.
I could go on and on about this, but I'll stop now.
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